Adrian Gabriel Dumitru’s INFLUENCING AND BEING INFLUENCED takes readers on a exploration of the subtle and often unseen forces shaping our lives.
The author dissects the psychology of influence, weaving together the complexities of how we impact and are impacted by the world around us. This book is not just a study of influence—it’s a guide to understanding the ebb and flow of energy, thought, and expectation in both personal and professional level.
With his assertion that we can influence reality by expecting something totally different, he brilliantly highlights how can actively change our realities by shifting our mindset.
One of the strengths of the book is the author’s ability to translate complex psychological and philosophical ideas into accessible language. From the first chapter, the reader is hooked by his clear, engaging style and the way he relates abstract concepts to everyday life. Whether you’re interested in personal development, leadership, or simply becoming more mindful of how you’re being influenced, this book offers valuable tools to enhance your understanding.
This a must-read for those looking to enhance their effectiveness and personal growth in any leadership role.
Overall, INFLUENCING AND BEING INFLUENCED invites you to reframe how you perceive and interact with the world. Dumitru’s engaging style and insightful observations make this book a captivating journey into the endless dance of influence.
Influencing and being influenced: a non ending story (ESSAYS – contradictory perceptions about love, philosophy, spirituality, motivation … and life in general Book 48)
“In many of the occasions in life, we see everything in a simple dogmatic way.
We are used with different kinds of results and believe that these represents the only case scenarios that can happen.
We want something else, but don’t really believe that life can bring us the … goodies.
We predict the future, according to the past.
But you know, same story, with the same elements can also have a different result than we are used to expect.
We can influence reality … just by expecting something totally different that we used to have.
For example … there are cases when the Universe is sending us the same lesson on and on and on … till the day when we understand that we need to do things differently to get a different result … and
improve everything happens.
Sometimes we are good theoreticians, sometimes we can’t even see clearly reality and understand the meaning of the events … especially the negative ones.
But having optimistic standards can help us break any problem … and in the end influence the energetic field of any situation, event .. or
even the energetic field of other people.
And when i use the term … energetic field … i mean the environment itself, with all its attributes that defines everything in a certain way.
I can give a simple example.
I was in a morning in my garden, reading a book.
I was on a chair, in a specific place from my garden … and i use to use that place by almost 10 years.
From that point, i see the beauty of my garden in a specific way, but because it was a very hot day, and the sun came in that point, i had
to move the chair in a different place from the garden, not to stay anymore in the sun.
I was amazed.
I almost saw a different garden from that position.
I loved it … but everything was a totally different perspective.
This was a simple case scenario … seeing even something beautiful, from a different angle and almost believe is something else.
But in theory, and even in practice, we can have even negative perspectives totally metamorphosized into positive one.
We can change the script of any scenario, by re-evaluate everything … just by expecting of getting a positive result … the one we desire.
This is how, only by having an opened mind, ignoring the statistical datas from your past, the one that defines the probability of having a
certain scenario … we can actually influence, but also change the reality itself.
And what we define as miracle … is in fact just changing the believe into the fact that … life can be also the way we dare to dream.
Truth be told, the reality can be created or even re-created in any way we want it to happen.
All we need to do is to connect to that energetic field, which actually means … be one with the present moment … and expect as
everything should happen in a specific way that you want.
Even the miracle itself is just a different result … the one that we had in mind and wanted.
So … realities can be defined, redefined, but also written in any specific way.
A hollywoodian movie … has amazing scenes and all the scenes are a telling the details of the story … so that it will have a powerful
message, but also powerful impact on you.
You connect with the reality of those scenes, but most probably the same scene was filmed by 5th – 7th … even 15th times, till they
considered they had the perfect one.
The same way, certain events could be redefined by us, just by meditating, finding the best solution for that event … and then
implemented in the real life.
And try … and try again … till the moment it just happens.
And the life can look like a hollywoodian movie also … by using the power of re-evaluation, re-defining and keeping an opened mind,
expecting all the time positive scenarios for our lives.
We are the creators of our reality … by conscious or unconscious thoughts … but in the end we should keep in our mind that what
looks like a negative script, might be just a life lesson … not finding yet the right path in life … but every scenario can be re written in the
way we want it to happen.
The key?! I mean the key of getting out of the labyrinth … is connecting to that reality … that energetic field … and have great
expectations from it.
So … even if you don’t know it yet … there is an art of influencing reality and you can learn it.”
